Nathan Tabak | Change.org Gay Rights | August 5, 2010

It’s been a huge week for supporters of marriage equality, in the wake of Judge Vaughn Walker’s ruling in Perry v. Schwarzenegger that California’s Proposition 8 is unconstitutional. But there are multiple roads to marriage equality in California and around the nation, and they don’t all involve courts. A new report, published this week, illuminates the path to winning marriage equality at the ballot box.
While Judge Walker’s words are an eloquent and stirring defense of the right to marriage for all, the ultimate fate of Prop 8 isn’t in his hands; the case still needs to go through the long, arduous appellate court process before reaching the Supreme Court, which will take a number of years. Even there, it’s all but certain that four justices (Scalia, Thomas, Roberts, and Alito) will vote against marriage equality. With the current makeup of the Court, it’ll come down to the Court’s one swing vote: Justice Anthony Kennedy. This is a gamble, to say the least.
We all hope for the best from the courts during the next few years of litigation. In the meantime, I advise supporters of equality to closely read a new study from the LGBT Mentoring Project. This report, written by longtime LGBT activist David Fleischer, not only analyzes the reasons why Proposition 8 passed in 2008, but also reveals how we can learn from our defeat to win future ballot initiatives. (Full disclosure: I am an employee of Renna Communications, a firm handling public relations for the Mentoring Project.)
Here are just a few of the report’s findings:
It was all about the kids. Remember the ad that featured a mother reacting in horror as her daughter tells her that “I learned I can marry a princess?“ Yes on 8’s most effective ads targeted parents and raised fears that children would be taught about homosexuality and (one can infer) gay sex in school. Parents ran away from marriage equality in droves – about 500,000 of them, according to the Report. Messaging matters. While the Yes on 8 campaign found an attack that worked and aimed it straight at the guts of California parents, the No on 8 campaign never managed to find a similarly clear, compelling message. In fact, the campaign was roiled by dissent over how to respond to the Yes on 8 attacks, and ended up wasting sixteen costly days before responding directly to the “princess” ad. The response ad ended up winning back a respectable minority of parents, though not enough to swing the outcome of the vote. *Racial minorities aren’t to blame. *While majorities of African-Americans did vote for Proposition 8, they didn’t provide the margin of victory. That came from the parents who swung in favor of Prop 8. Moreover, minority support for Prop 8 may also prove to be vulnerable with a stronger outreach effort from our side. We face an uphill climb. This finding may be the bitterest pill for marriage equality supporters to swallow, but it should be acknowledged: Many voters were confused by the counterintuitive wording on the ballot, which asked them to vote “no” for same-sex marriage, and “yes” against it. The Report finds that this wrong-way voting disproportionately benefited our side; had all voters cast their ballots based purely on intent, Prop 8 would have won by a million votes – over 400,000 greater than the official count. We can still win. As the report’s recommendations note, “[t]here is no secret recipe that we can just follow to win.“ But it does offer a series of general recommendations, including: working to persuade voters in between campaigns; and preparing for “kids” attacks. What’s more, the site actually features videos of conversations with skeptical voters, showing how they can be persuaded to support marriage rights even in the face of attacks like the “Princess” ad.
We face a long and difficult fight ahead of us no matter how we pursue the cause of marriage equality. We may hope for a resounding Loving v. Virginia equivalent that establishes same-sex marriage as a constitutional right. But we can’t stake the future of marriage equality solely on how a single Justice might vote three or four years (or more) from now. We must keep fighting outside the courts, working to win over voters, and digging in for the long haul.
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IN THE LIFE INVESTIGATES LAWS CRIMINALIZING HIV AND AIDS:
A Special Report On Positive Women Stigmatized & Prosecuted
February 1, 2012 – Tonight, public television stations across the country will begin airing Perpetuating Stigma, an episode from the award-winning documentary series IN THE LIFE. This special report investigates the injustices that arise when a person’s HIV status becomes a crime, with a focus on how women have been stigmatized and prosecuted under these laws.

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ALI FORNEY CENTER DIRECTOR REACTS TO NEW NYS BUDGET
The following statement, released in response to the budget for New York submitted by Gov. Cuomo today, can be attributed to Carl Siciliano, Executive Director of the Ali Forney Center:
“Governor Cuomo’s budget proposal is bad news for the 1600 homeless LGBT youth stranded on the streets of New York each night without access to a shelter bed. These youth, who suffer horribly and whose lives are in danger, deserve the attention and concern of their governor no less than the other members of our community. With marriage equality expected to bring in over 100 million dollars in additional economic activity and tax revenue for the state, the LGBT community has a moral obligation to demand that our tax dollars protect the most vulnerable and desperate members of our community.”

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GREEN CHIMNEYS, SCO FAMILY OF SERVICES LAUNCH NEW APPROACH TO WORK WITH FAMILIES OF LGBTQ YOUTH; EVENT AT LGBT CENTER JANUARY 10
WHAT: On the evening of Tuesday, January 10, New York’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender Community Center will host an event titled Families: The Missing Link in Reducing Risk & Promoting Well-Being of LGBT Youth. This event, convened by Green Chimneys and SCO, will be a community forum on a groundbreaking new approach to working with families of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning (LGBTQ) youth to solve the tragic problem of family rejection of these youth that results in homelessness, family disruption and serious related health and mental health problems.



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IN THE LIFE WELCOMES THE NEW YEAR WITH FIRST CLASS CITIZENS:
Honoring the groundbreaking work of LGBT & ally pioneers
January 3, 2012 – Tonight, public television stations across the country will begin airing First Class Citizens, an episode of the award-winning documentary series IN THE LIFE honoring the groundbreaking work of pioneers in the pursuit of LGBT civil rights. As the United States remembers Martin Luther King’s vision of equality and the African American civil rights movement, IN THE LIFE looks back at inspiring portraits of LGBT people and allies who stood up, spoke out and made a difference in the fight for full LGBT equality.

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DONATION OF $100K BY LONGTIME NY ACTIVISTS FRANK SELVAGGI AND BILL SHEA
NEW YORK, NY – December 5, 2011 – The Ali Forney Center, the nation’s largest organization working on behalf of homeless lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth, today announced the launch of an Internet-based campaign, “Homeless for the Holidays,” featuring the faces and stories of diverse New York LGBT youth forced to spend the winter without shelter. Beginning today, a new photo of one of these youth and his or her first-person story will be released every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday through the month of December. Each one of these photos was taken in November and December of this year, at a time when the youth photographed did not have access to a shelter bed due to all youth shelters being at capacity. The series can be viewed at: http://www.aliforneycenter.org/HFTH.html
